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              2019-7-3 19:21| 作者: 千嶺之松| 審核: 香港水云天|查看: 613| 評論: 3


              林則徐說:“海納百川,有容乃大"。一個人氣量的大小,決定了其格局的大小和境界的高低。

              因生活環境不同,成長經歷不同,具備的知識的差異,認知上的差異,思維方式的差異,世界觀人生觀價值觀的差異,利益角度不同等等,我們在與他人相處中,總會產生一些矛盾,總會遇到不順心不如意的事,總會有令人憋屈痛苦傷心憤怒的事,因此,也會隨之引起情緒上的波瀾起伏。

              人人都會有不順心不如意情緒的產生、憋屈憤怒失望痛苦情緒的產生,這是人心理不平衡的正常反應。我們都是俗人不是神仙,我們的內心不可能在任何情況下都能做到風平浪靜,心若止水。

              但是,當遇到這些使人不順心不如意憋屈失望痛苦憤怒的事時,一方面需要積極應對積極處理,一方面需要盡快甩掉由此產生的負面情緒的陰霾,讓自己的內心重回陽光和淡然。

              如果把不順心不如意的情緒長時間放在心中不能釋懷,怨天尤人怪這怪那,就是不反思自己總結教訓想法改進。那么,心眼兒就會越來越小,眼光會越來越短,路就會越走越窄。

              如果讓失望和傷痛長時間占據自己的心,心就會越來越來涼降至冰點一片蒼白,即使艷陽高照也驅趕不了心里的寒氣。世上早已春暖花開,自己還躲在心的冰天雪地里哭泣,若不自救,誰救得了你?

              如果不能抑制憤怒的情緒且長時間放在心中不能自行驅散,那么,極端的情緒會燒掉理智,失去客觀公允的判斷,既會傷害到他人也會讓憤怒的火焰燒灼自己的心。

              如果把工作上的分歧和生活上雞毛蒜皮的矛盾上升為仇恨而耿耿于懷甚至伺機報復背后捅上幾刀欲置之死地而后快,這樣的人,不具備做人的善良和寬厚的本真,非正人君子所為。這種人既便會一時得志春風得意,但在精神境界上永遠是一個可憐的侏儒。而且,爬得越高,摔得越慘。

              人生不如意十之八九",我們艱難地生活在滾滾紅塵中,會遇到形形色色的人稀奇古怪的事,會有各種艱難各種不如意。我們需要一邊堅定地前行一邊隨時清理自己內心的負面情緒,拓寬自己的胸懷和眼界,力爭具有容納八方來風四海翻騰的氣度。遇事,不失理智客觀,拿得起放得下處之泰然;于心,苦過痛過失望過,但決不喪失心智一蹶不振,要努力驅散風雨讓心安寧。

              心寬了,路會越走越寬,趟過泥濘,終會見美景,所謂沉舟側畔千帆過,病樹前頭萬木春

              作為位高權重者,海納百川,才會容得下性格各異各具優勢的八方人才;虛懷若谷,才能聽得進各路諍友逆耳忠言。

              作為一介草民,心寬有度量能容不順心不如意之事,不計雞零狗碎之前嫌,就會集中精力渾身有力氣去求生存,掙溫飽,奔小康。

              心寬似海,于大人物于草民都非常重要。

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